-positive emotions-
are you bored? not knowing how to feel positive?
here're some situations producing positive emotions^spending a good social evening with friends
^receiving an unexpected compliment which means a lot to you
^getting involved in a thriller on tv
^feeling overwhelmed by the beauty of nature
^getting on well wqith your loved ones
^solving an important personal problem
^listening to a beautiful music
^engaging in a favourite hobby (not sports)
^having a rewarding conversation
^feeling popular at a social gathering
^being a success at something important to you
^being absorbed by your work
^meeting an interesting new person or people
^being successful at work
^reading a good book (that's y i am here to share)
^buying yourself something you wanted for ages
^being given a valuable present by someone dear to you
^pampering yourself some way
^spending a memorable evening at a cinema/theatre/concert
^having a quiet drink with friends
wanting to have long-term relationshsips? not knowing how to do it?
here're some important factors to consider^having similar values
^being willing to change in response to the other person
^being prepared to put up with the other person's flaws
^having matching religious beliefs
^having equal intellectual level
^gals making the first move
(high chances that the guy wont really appreciate the gal)
not knowing what is too close/away?
zones of personal distance^intimate (0-45cm) -lovers,close family/friends
^personal (0.5-1.2m) -friends, family members
^social (1.25-3.5m) -business conversation/discussion with stranger
^public (3.5-7.5m) -public meetings, ceremonies/ with speakers
